Just hook up with that woman and have sex with her; 1. Say it Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and Aural Sex’.Similar to #2, never discuss any subject matter on a ‘first date’ that is not relevant to helping you determine if the woman you are on the date with is ‘long-term girlfriend material.’ Alan Roger Currie is a professional dating coach and author of ‘Mode One: Let the Women Know What You’re REALLY Thinking’ and ‘Oooooh . For more information, visit Currie’s page or his website, Instead of just asking what someone does for a living or what their favorite film is, finding out why they do what they do or why they like that film will get them to reveal more about their personality and create a deeper connection.First dates are often boring, awkward, unexciting, and even torturous to many men.Guys build up the occasion in their mind for days or weeks beforehand, only to be severely let down after the fact.Do you really want to hear all the grizzly details of her past relationships or how she cut herself when she was shaving her legs earlier that day?Women like to create a sense of mystery, and you should be conveying this yourself, too. When a guy says this to us on a first date, it gives us the impression that he is “testing the waters” because he is unsure if we will agree.The goal of dating is to find someone who wants what you want, and wants that with you.That’s only possible by starting with the ‘real you.’ Make up your mind, in advance, to have fun. Every time you meet someone new, you’re gaining vital information as to what you want (and don’t want) in a partner. Do not go to a movie theater or a music concert on a first date; save those types of events for a second, third, or fourth date; 5.
It’s a game that can’t be maintained and guarantees dissatisfaction for both parties.Women want to be with a guy who has a sense of certainty in what he does and in what choices he makes.If it becomes apparent that she is not impressed with your choice of venue, smile confidently and say to her: “This is not your kind of place, is it?Let the conversation flow, and let her reveal the hidden sides to her personality by gently provoking or challenging her, rather than making huge demands on her. Instead, try and implement what I like to call “future projections”.
Example: During the date, when you feel it’s going well, say to her playfully: “Next time we have dinner, you order the wine,” or “Next time we meet, when we see a movie, I bet you’ll talk all the way through it.” As you can tell, these examples have a playful undertone to them, but most importantly, they are PRESUMING that there will be another date without a flimsy question dangling at the end of it.
They don’t know where to go, what to say, how to act, and most importantly, they don’t know how to set up a second date! Take their tips and their advice and really soak them in. Take a moment to do your mental preparation before you meet your date. Knowing the answer to these questions allows you to engage in a manner consistent with your desires.